You are going to have to eventually make a discussion on what course in life you are going to pursue. That can result in becoming your ideology or your theology. The Holy Spirit is the only remedy that can forge a union between our ideology and our theology. It takes the illumination and the anointing of God to sort through the issues of life and bring perspective to behavioral problems. The problem with reform or transformation is the resistance of the elite to maintain where we traditionally are, though where we are is not where God is. We need more indoctrination of the word of God in our lives and less application of what it means to me.